Hooker Hoops & Red Lipstick: Empowering Yourself To Demand For Better (Revisited)

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Let me say this loud & clear: just because you got drunk or high does not give you an excuse to disrespect me or anyone. Just like it doesn't give me the right to, either. If we are going to do something that can impair our judgment, we are going to have to fucking be smart about it, know our own limits, & know when it really might not be the best for us to let loose. Like meeting creepy guys from online. No, not all are creepy, but be smart when you're meeting a stranger.

Online dating is such a joke, guys that ghosted you & are horny & reach out expecting something. Bro, I was over it before you even ghosted me, and now I don't even put out for randoms. The sex was mediocre, so please don't ask to hang out unless you're going to smoke me out and leave. I am definitely not who I used to be, crazy ex made sure that I don't like people in my face. He tried breaking down my self-esteem and you know what happened? It got better, along with my self-respect. If you push me, I will just distance myself more; if you're patient with me, I may come around. Guys do not have to be so goddamn aggressive to get laid.

Although some sort of possessiveness is hot as hell, you have to know me and earn the right to be possessive and aggressive with me. Talking to me online for a week or two, isn't that. Not anymore. No more sex with randoms just because I am horny.. Bye Boy!

Don't get me wrong, women can have sex a lot, with different men and still have self-respect and be picky. "Sorry." just doesn't fucking cut it anymore, show me who you are by your actions. I'm not going to fall for the words that you probably tell every other girl in your inbox. I might even play along for a little bit before I pass judgment.

I've been told that I am "basically a guy" by a few guy friends, and I'm not sure if it's a compliment, or they've just put me in the friend zone.... Well, one was gay, I think he'd have more credibility on the topic, but guys confuse the shit out of me, so what do I know?

I know most days, I'm not as emotional as most women. I laugh at fart and poop jokes and noises. (Just don't go overboard and do them over and over) I enjoy sex.... A LOT. I am not exactly a tomboy, but I guess I can see where I can be less girly than some.

Self-love is allowing yourself time to consistently work towards your dreams, for instance, I should never be too busy to write, but sometimes learning things at work and getting my mind distracted about other things, my priorities aren't where they should be. I'm sure we all have similar moments, but as long as we get back to it eventually, we should be easy on ourselves. I really think there's not enough time in each day to get everything done that we've needed to.

What type of projects are you all working on? How can I help? I know Chubby Wildcat just did a photo shoot, that I am excited to see the final product. I have a few fall projects in the works and they will hopefully be revealed in time. (2024 needs new merch, don't you think?!) It's exciting, yet exhausting making plans, but it just means I am hopefully getting to the place I'd like to be at not only in my writing career, but my life.

So confidently rock your hooker hoops & your red lipstick or whatever makes you feel like the badass Goddess you are and empower yourself to demand better.

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